i am so sad

spaceman-spiff · Post by **spaceman-spiff** » 06 Feb 2003 19:28

Yes, Owen we figured that out already

SHADOW-XIII · Post by **SHADOW-XIII** » 06 Feb 2003 19:33

what ??? he is not Melissa ??? so why I send him valentine card ???

LOL ...just kidding

Raichase · Post by **Raichase** » 06 Feb 2003 20:42

SHADOW-XIII wrote:what ??? he is not Melissa ??? so why I send him valentine card ???

Eehk! Thats a scary thought... Hey, tcbil, why don't you do a sort of secret valentines thing for her, like a letter or a card or something. Sounds corny, but it might work... Note the work secret, save the naming until later

tcbil · Post by **tcbil** » 06 Feb 2003 21:04

lol, ok i am probably goin clubbin on saturday with her and the over people from the pub were we work so maybe ill get a chance there to place a few words and see how she reacts, or i could try the scenario of the sad man and let her ask me what is wrong, why i seem so depressed. Maybe that will work.

spaceman-spiff · Post by **spaceman-spiff** » 06 Feb 2003 21:07

That could backfire, the sad man scenario, they might say: hey party pooper lighten up

tcbil · Post by **tcbil** » 06 Feb 2003 21:15

lol maybe, ill try just to see what the outcome is like and following that ill see how i can get to her, talk to her clearly enough so that she gets my point, i really like that girl (or more likely love her) and the longer i wait to tell her the more it kills me so even if i know its negative i have to do something

tcbil · Post by **tcbil** » 08 Feb 2003 01:46

i just told her about 20minutes ago, she told me that in about 7weeks she is leaving UK so she didnt want to start anything and i told her that if you dont live your life has it comes you never will live it, or something like that, i didnt really tell he that i loved her but more like i fancied her a lot. She seemed embarassed, she already had about 3 offers while we were workin at the pub and she turned them all down, probably for the same reasons, but ill continue trying to see if i can get something.

ps: she has the most beautiful smile in the world and if i could go out with her for 6 weeks, these would be the best 6 weeks of my life.

spaceman-spiff · Post by **spaceman-spiff** » 08 Feb 2003 05:53

Yes, I think it's because she's leaving that she doesn't want to fall in love

Anyway, try to stay friends, you can always chat and stay in contact

tcbil · Post by **tcbil** » 08 Feb 2003 14:53

yes its allways a good thing, thow i would like to stop makin friends and get a girlfriend. anyway ill bee fixed tonight, if she wants to stay friends ill keep my self to that and do my best(has a friend) i walked her home yesterday cause there are a lot of drunk w*** in Dartford at 2 in the morning and ill probably walk her home often cause i dont want anything to happen to her. ok ill shut up know ill post a last message tonight when i come back from the club too give the results and thats it.

spaceman-spiff · Post by **spaceman-spiff** » 08 Feb 2003 15:28

tcbil wrote:and ill probably walk her home often cause i dont want anything to happen to her

off-course you know this isn't the best way !

tcbil · Post by **tcbil** » 09 Feb 2003 01:31

what do you mean, i know she doesnt want to go out with me, know i am quite sure enough to not ask her again any more but i just want to keep her has a good friend because she is probably the closest person i know in this f*** country, the fact i dont want anything to happen to her is just my gentlemam side has Barry said (one of the guys i work with) but there you go.

Lilman424 · Post by **Lilman424** » 09 Feb 2003 02:36

...

I have a girlfriend.....

Raichase · Post by **Raichase** » 09 Feb 2003 06:31

Lilman424 wrote:... I have a girlfriend.....

Showoff...

Well, i have the problem that i always make friends first, so i can then ask them out, but then i become good friends with them and I don't want to ruin it by going out with them, or they don't want to ruin it...

So, i can never go out with a chick, because i always end up as their friends

SHADOW-XIII · Post by **SHADOW-XIII** » 09 Feb 2003 09:41

Raichase wrote: So, i can never go out with a chick, because i always end up as their friends

and the worst is when you love her

sultana · Post by **sultana** » 09 Feb 2003 09:54

Raichase wrote:Well, i have the problem that i always make friends first, so i can then ask them out, but then i become good friends with them and I don't want to ruin it by going out with them, or they don't want to ruin it...

So, i can never go out with a chick, because i always end up as their friends

Put it this way, you can make all your friends jealous by hanging out with your girl-friends. But who knows, maybe one of them will go out with you?

Raichase · Post by **Raichase** » 09 Feb 2003 20:26

Shadow: Sad huh?

Sultana: If I am lucky, then theres hope for me yet

SHADOW-XIII · Post by **SHADOW-XIII** » 09 Feb 2003 20:59

.......................................

lynsey · Post by **lynsey** » 09 Feb 2003 22:19

Raichase wrote:
Lilman424 wrote:... I have a girlfriend.....
Showoff...

Well, i have the problem that i always make friends first, so i can then ask them out, but then i become good friends with them and I don't want to ruin it by going out with them, or they don't want to ruin it...

So, i can never go out with a chick, because i always end up as their friends

The best way to get around that is to have a day or to of intense getting to know each other, that way you're not really proper friends but she'll know a lot about you, and your chances are most likely gonna be higher when that's the case.

SGWebmaster · Post by **SGWebmaster** » 09 Feb 2003 23:11

Do you do this sort of thing for a living Lynsey? You talk wich such authority!

tcbil · Post by **tcbil** » 09 Feb 2003 23:27

i get that prob too, or i used too, since i have been in England i didnt meat a lot of people but before i had that prob aswell. so my last girlfriend, what happened was, i met her on wednesday, chatted by message with her until friday afternoon and asked her out in the evening. worked out quite well for 1 month then she dumped me.

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